Sunday, July 12, 2009

Champions Day Talk


Thursday, May 14, 2009

The Rosedale Diet


Iam often asked to briefly summarize what it is that establishes health. I can do
this in a single sentence. “Health and life span is determined by the proportion
of fat versus sugar people burn throughout their lifetime” The more fat you burn
as fuel, the healthier you will be. The more sugar you burn as fuel, the more
disease-ridden you will be, and the shorter your life will likely be.
-- Ron Rosedale , MD

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Robin Sharma - The Saint, The Surfer, And the CEO


Sunday, April 5, 2009

Practical Steps to Increase your Success Consciousness


In terms of success, background and education are not deciding factors. Your ability to continuously focus your mind on positive thoughts, however, is the key factor for success. By positive thoughts we mean a focus on what you'd like to achieve rather than what you can't see or don't have in your life.

There are several powerful techniques that you can use immediately as you embark on your journey of having positive thinking patterns guide you to whatever it is you want to achieve. The effectiveness of these techniques depends on continuous and repetitive exposure to positive messages that trigger positive thoughts.

Create a positive environment

First of all, it is important that you create a positive work and home environment. What are the areas where you spend most of your time during the day? Is it an office, a kitchen, a study, a factory etc.? Is the environment where you spend a lot of your time a motivating place filled with positive messages? Does it inspire you to be creative and have positive thoughts?
For example, if you spend most of your day in an office in front of a computer, install inspiring screensavers or desktop backgrounds. Decorate your walls with inspiring pictures. Have pictures of significant and successful moments on your desk. All these "things" around you affect your thoughts. Make sure that the places you spend most of your time trigger positive thoughts. Once you've established a positive environment, you'll see these your positive messages on a continuous and repetitive basis.

Expose Yourself to Positive and Inspiring Information

A lot has been written about the effects of our thinking on our life. By now many people know that in some way or another, their thinking affects their life. We hear things like: "Think positive. As you think, so shall you be. You can choose to see the glass half empty or half full". Does this sound familiar? And yet, how many people, maybe including yourself, have you encountered who you would truly classify as "positive thinkers"? Probably not too many, right? As soon as we get up in the morning we usually get busy doing things and let our thoughts flow freely as the day unfolds. The amount of information our brain processes in a day is unbelievable. Therefore, it is not easy to constantly monitor our thoughts and make sure they are always positive. We can make a true difference, however, when we consciously chose to expose ourselves to positive, inspiring and uplifting information. Minimize the time you spend processing negative information. Ask yourself what kind of books are you reading, or what kind of programs are you watching on TV. Are they inspiring, encouraging and positive, or do they expose you to information that decreases your energy level?

Affirmations

Affirmations are a wonderful and effective tool to focus your mind on positive thoughts. The best way to use affirmations is to write down what you want to achieve. The important thing is that you write it in the first person, present tense as if it had already taken place. For example: "I am earning $ 50,000. I live in a red two story brick house with an ocean view from my bedroom window." Be as specific as you can in your description. Read your affirmation( s) several times a day.

Visualization

This technique is often used by athletes. It's all about seeing yourself succeeding. Visualization is most effective if you define a few moments each day where you can be at a quiet place without distractions. As you close your eyes, you visualize what it's like to see your goal fulfilled. As you do this ask yourself "What does it look like, how do I feel about it, what does it smell like etc.?" It is like a movie sequence that you keep playing and refining in your mind until it becomes and feels real. Repeat this exercise several times each day.

Affirmations combined with Visualization

The combination of both affirmation and visualization is an extremely strong tool. If you can both say your affirmations to yourself and visualize the achievement of your affirmation at the same time you actually multiply the effectiveness of both tools.

Success Conversations

Each day many of us spend a fair amount of time in transit from place A to B and back. Think about all the time you either spend in your car or public transportation on your way to work and back, the time you invest taking your children to school and back etc. You may want to use this time constructively to increase your success consciousness by having "success conversations" with yourself. You can do this by imagining a situation where you've already achieved your goal and now tell others about it. Say your goal was to lose 20 pounds and be in great physical shape. Your conversation then could be "You know Mary, I just decided to lose 20 pounds and work out on a regular basis and it really didn't take me too long to reach that goal. I now just feel like a new person and get so many compliments on my achievement." Be creative in your success conversations. If your goal is to start your own business, imagine yourself talking to your employees about the stellar results your company just achieved, or see yourself giving an interview to a business news reporter about the success of your company. "Success conversations" is a very powerful in focusing your mind on success. Again, the key is continuity and repetition.

Prayers

Whatever your faith of spiritual orientation may be, prayers are excellent and proven means to materialize your goals. By praying we are asking our creator for help in achieving our objectives. Praying is most effective because it is often connected with a strong faith or belief system. The actual belief in that "As you ask, you shall receive" will drive our thinking patterns and actions to the realization of our goals. Since many people pray each day before they go to bed, it is easy to establish a daily routine.

Talk to your subconscious mind

Whichever of the above tool, or combination of tools, you chose to apply, from a timing perspective we strongly suggest that you also apply it / them right after you wake up and before you go to sleep. Many studies have proven that our subconscious mind is very receptive when we start relaxing before we fall asleep and right after we wake up in the morning. An interesting fact about our subconscious mind is that it unconditionally "believes" whatever we tell it. It is like a little machine in the background that just executes commands without questioning them. Therefore, if we succeed in reaching our subconscious mind with continuous, positive and constructive commands, it will automatically start executing and focus on the materialization of our goals.

Take Action

Last but not least it is incredibly important that we start taking action toward our goals. Often times we simply think that our goals are so out of reach that we don't even know where and how to start which then can lead to not taking any action at all. The good news is that it doesn't really matter how big our goals are. The simple fact that we take action, no matter how small, sends a very strong signal that we are actually in the process of realizing our goal. In other words, we are already moving in the direction of that goal. Remember "Every journey starts with one single step" - Confucius. Let' assume that you'd like to be independent and start your own business. This may appear to be a rather daunting task. However, even if you just start researching about the market, or take a business class at your community college, or think about a name for your business, there are always small but achievable steps where you can take action toward your goal. Remember, the "size" of your action does not matter. What matters most is that you do take action.

Take Decision

Taking decision is most important tool.You should take a firm decision that you will put your efforts to become successful and you will put your attention towards success.
Saturday, April 4, 2009

Awakening and Self Realization/Development books by Robin sharma


Robin Sharma - Megha Living
Robin Sharma - Megha Living Robin Sharma - Megha Living Rohit Jhawer

Success Secret - Robin Sharma

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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Top 5 steps for building wealth consciousness


"HOW CAN I BE WEALTHY IF I'M NOT WEALTHY?"
To attract wealth, you first have to BE wealthy. THEN, you think wealthy thoughts, speak wealthy affirmations, and take wealthy action.

“But how can I BE wealthy if I’m NOT wealthy?” you ask.
Logical question, but it’s based on the false assumption that you don’t have wealth. You HAVE wealth. You’re simply not aware of it. You have constructed a physical reality that prevents you from experiencing Wealth. This can all be explained with the science of Quantum Physics. So let’s look at some very basic concepts of Quantum Physics that will explain what I’m talking about.
First, you probably are aware - at least on an intellectual level - that at a subatomic level, we, and everything else in the Universe, is Energy. When you break everything down, we’re all made of the same stuff, and we’re all connected.
THE UNIVERSE IS AN OCEAN OF ENERGY
The Universe is just this huge ocean of Energy, vibrating at various frequencies which gives the illusion of individuation. That is, we experience the illusion of separateness from each other, physical objects, and wealth because our “senses” are decoding the Energy around us in such a way as to create our physical reality. This all happens in our thoughts.

So, to simplify things quickly here for the sake of time (another illusion), “things” only exist because we observe them. It is in our observing that things come into existence. Without our observing, things are simply “waves” - probabilities of existence. Physicists agree on this.

Our beliefs are a very powerful Energy system in our lives. Our beliefs allow or disallow certain experiences in our lives, including wealth.They make up who we are. We “BE” in the world according to our beliefs. If we are being “someone who is trying to get wealthy by repeating affirmations” , then THAT is what our reality will be. We will just be TRYING to get wealthy.
WEALTH IS A DECISION YOU CAN MAKE
We have to make the decision that we ARE wealthy, contrary to any external physical evidence. That evidence is an illusion based on the belief systems that have guided who we have been being up to that point. A truly wealthy person isn’t wealthy because they have money. They have money, because they are wealthy! That’s the distinction that most people have backward!

Here’s an example to illustrate what I mean: Tony Robbins became a millionaire at a very young age. Then, due to a series of poor judgments, he lost it. But within a year, he had it back. How did he do this? HE NEVER LOST HIS WEALTH. He only lost his money, which is just a symbol of wealth! Because he is “Wealth Conscious”, he literally “magnetically attracts” wealth into his life. He truly can’t help it! It’s who he is! And there are thousands out there like him, who attract wealth simply because it’s who they are. You can make the same decision and have the same results.

Conversely, a person who has grown up with “lack consciousness” can win millions in the lottery and lose it within a year. Their consciousness - their ENERGY - simply can’t maintain the attraction to Wealth because they aren’t “wealthy” in who they are being.
But again, Wealth is a decision. If you aren’t currently experiencing wealth, you first need to realize that abundance is everywhere.. .in fact it’s all there is. Poverty and lack are the illusions.
You can shift your consciousness to Wealth - BE Wealth - by simply making the decision, THEN your thoughts, speech, and action will allow you to experience the wealth that is yours! This is indeed a complex subject which challenges our core belief systems. But it is those very belief systems that keep a person in a state of lack.

Look at your financial situation today. Look at your core beliefs about Wealth and You, and see if your life isn’t a PERFECT reflection of your beliefs. Then, look where those beliefs may have originated. When you can awaken to yourself that your beliefs create your reality, rather than the other way around, you have the option to truly be free to experience a reality of prosperity that you deserve!

"HOW CAN I BE WEALTHY IF I'M NOT WEALTHY?"


"HOW CAN I BE WEALTHY IF I'M NOT WEALTHY?"
To attract wealth, you first have to BE wealthy. THEN, you think wealthy thoughts, speak wealthy affirmations, and take wealthy action.

“But how can I BE wealthy if I’m NOT wealthy?” you ask.
Logical question, but it’s based on the false assumption that you don’t have wealth. You HAVE wealth. You’re simply not aware of it. You have constructed a physical reality that prevents you from experiencing Wealth. This can all be explained with the science of Quantum Physics. So let’s look at some very basic concepts of Quantum Physics that will explain what I’m talking about.
First, you probably are aware - at least on an intellectual level - that at a subatomic level, we, and everything else in the Universe, is Energy. When you break everything down, we’re all made of the same stuff, and we’re all connected.
THE UNIVERSE IS AN OCEAN OF ENERGY
The Universe is just this huge ocean of Energy, vibrating at various frequencies which gives the illusion of individuation. That is, we experience the illusion of separateness from each other, physical objects, and wealth because our “senses” are decoding the Energy around us in such a way as to create our physical reality. This all happens in our thoughts.

So, to simplify things quickly here for the sake of time (another illusion), “things” only exist because we observe them. It is in our observing that things come into existence. Without our observing, things are simply “waves” - probabilities of existence. Physicists agree on this.

Our beliefs are a very powerful Energy system in our lives. Our beliefs allow or disallow certain experiences in our lives, including wealth.They make up who we are. We “BE” in the world according to our beliefs. If we are being “someone who is trying to get wealthy by repeating affirmations” , then THAT is what our reality will be. We will just be TRYING to get wealthy.
WEALTH IS A DECISION YOU CAN MAKE
We have to make the decision that we ARE wealthy, contrary to any external physical evidence. That evidence is an illusion based on the belief systems that have guided who we have been being up to that point. A truly wealthy person isn’t wealthy because they have money. They have money, because they are wealthy! That’s the distinction that most people have backward!

Here’s an example to illustrate what I mean: Tony Robbins became a millionaire at a very young age. Then, due to a series of poor judgments, he lost it. But within a year, he had it back. How did he do this? HE NEVER LOST HIS WEALTH. He only lost his money, which is just a symbol of wealth! Because he is “Wealth Conscious”, he literally “magnetically attracts” wealth into his life. He truly can’t help it! It’s who he is! And there are thousands out there like him, who attract wealth simply because it’s who they are. You can make the same decision and have the same results.

Conversely, a person who has grown up with “lack consciousness” can win millions in the lottery and lose it within a year. Their consciousness - their ENERGY - simply can’t maintain the attraction to Wealth because they aren’t “wealthy” in who they are being.
But again, Wealth is a decision. If you aren’t currently experiencing wealth, you first need to realize that abundance is everywhere.. .in fact it’s all there is. Poverty and lack are the illusions.
You can shift your consciousness to Wealth - BE Wealth - by simply making the decision, THEN your thoughts, speech, and action will allow you to experience the wealth that is yours! This is indeed a complex subject which challenges our core belief systems. But it is those very belief systems that keep a person in a state of lack.

Look at your financial situation today. Look at your core beliefs about Wealth and You, and see if your life isn’t a PERFECT reflection of your beliefs. Then, look where those beliefs may have originated. When you can awaken to yourself that your beliefs create your reality, rather than the other way around, you have the option to truly be free to experience a reality of prosperity that you deserve!


Saturday, January 10, 2009

INTENT + EFFORT + GRACE = SUCCESS


In this article you will be introduced to the secret of getting Success by Acharya Sri Samadarhini(From Acharyaji talk on Sarva Jana samkshema Maha Pooja held at Warangal Andhra Pradesh on Dec 21st 2008)

“ Firstly Succeed Internally the goal you want to succeed externally”- Acharya samadarshiniji

We can see many people having all the capacities still are a failure in their life, there are also people having consistent success .

Why is it so?

We have to understand that they have a pattern. A successful person keeps some rules in his life and his life goes accordingly.

How does the success journey starts in one’s life:
It all starts with a decision to become successful.You become successful only if u decide to become .

We all know the story of Alibaba and the forty thief’s. AliBaba happens to overhear a group of forty thieves visiting their treasure store in the forest where he is cutting wood. The treasure is in a cave, the mouth of which is sealed by magic spell. Alibaba utters the magic spell and the door of cave opens and the rest is known.,

Similarly in our life the door of success is closed. All we need to do is to open the door of success.
Acharyaji says that there is a success mantra to open the door of Success.

It is
INTENT + EFFORT + GRACE = SUCCESS

INTENT or YATNA:

It is otherwise called sankalpa. There is a lot of difference between a wish and an INTENT . Mere wish is not sufficient, the wish has to become passion and the passion should have emotion with it.then it becomes a strong INTENT.

-Where does the INTENT come from?

There are two ways from which one can get/take an INTENT
1. From fear
2. From Inspiration.

Sankalpa is the keen thing in getting success. Sankalpa must not come from jelousy, greed or comparision.

The more strong is our Sankalpa the more is the probability of success. We take the sankalpa once it may gets weakened sometimes or strong sometimes.

What is that which boost or weakens our INTENT?
It is our Belief system which either boost or weakens our Intent. If we have an INTENT and our beliefs is completely opposite to it we cant get success. Our Belief system should support the INTENT. Our INTENT and our BELIEF should become one.

How are these BELIEF created?

Beliefs are born from repeated situations are experiences in our life .If we observe our thoughts, fears there lies a belief behind each one of them which are stored in our unconscious mind . Observe your beliefs you have in your life and pray AMMA BHAGAVAN to make your sankalpa and your Beliefs to become one.

Sadhana:
Keep both of your hands gently on Sreemurthi ,close your eyes and pray Amma bhagavan to give good beliefs in your life and ask to give deeksha , then slowly keep both of your hands on your head, now the grace enters into you which you may experience as a silence or bliss or lite shock or numbness or unconditional love etc.,

EFFORT or PRAYATNA:

To be successful effort is crucial. Not only Intent one has to do consistent effort in the direction of our intent.

How should the Effort must be:
1.Consistent Effort: consistent or continous effort only brings success.
2. Good Effort: our effort should be beneficial to all.

Grace or DAIVANUGRAHA:

Grace is also crucial in one's success. How does the grace come.
Shri bhagavan says there are four things on which the abundacy of grace depends.
1. Authentic in prayer.
2. Emotion in the prayer.
3. Bond with the God.
4. Focus on solution .
Thursday, January 8, 2009

Parenting: Srishti, the Art of Spiritual Parenting with Sri Samadarshini



Part of the work of the Golden Age Foundation is to offer guidance in Shristi - the Art of Parenting. This is done through courses and seminars. In this article you will be introduced to some of the basic principles of Shristi by Acharya Sri Samadarhini.


-What is special with Shristi?

-Sri Sri Bhagavan often says that to be a parent is a sacred responsibility. You cannot just say that you want to have a child because you're fascinated of children. It is a responsibility; you bring down a soul to this planet. Parenting is a sacred art which has to be learned. It is such an important experience to be a parent. You are dedicating 21 years of your life to your child. In fact Sri Sri Bhagavan wants the whole world to receive this learning first, before they get pregnant. It will be a grand experience towards the child.

The parenting is not beginning when the child is born. This parenting begins long before they even are conceived. Sri Sri Bhagavan says, a couple has to work with their selves; they have to discover love in their relationship. The mother basically have to learn to respect herself, to love herself, today every woman is aching to be respected, wanting to be loved. Sri Sri Bhagavan says, "If you love yourself the whole world will love you." And you cannot demand respect; once you discover love in your life you automatically become respected. We basically work on the couple first, we help them experience each other and love each other. Then we tell them to go for conception at an auspicious time, you cannot go for it just because you have lust and you want to create a child.

You look for an auspicious time and then with a strong intent about the kind of child you want to create, you create the child. You create love for each other; it cannot be an act of frustration. If you create a child out of frustration the seed is not filled with love, so that child will definitely go to life and suffer from lack of love. A big number of people you see today, they do not love themselves. We are speaking of loving our neighbour, how can you love your neighbour when you do not love yourself?

From that moment that the seed has gone into the womb of the mother we tell the mother that she has to be in a happy state of mind. That happiness is going to affect the child in the womb and if the mother is involved in some spiritually practice, especially if she has a teacher, her consciousness will be in a higher level. Even the child that is growing in the womb will have a different level of consciousness. His experience in the womb will be different.

Let us say that the mother is constantly watching horror movies or she is frustrated with life, she is unhappy. She is thinking that this is a horrible world and living in this world is suffering. The child also will come to the same conclusions.


I give you an example; there was a man highly educated, very intelligent but everything he tried to do seemed to end as a failure. Then he looked inwards and saw himself in his mother's womb and realized that the family in that time went through very heavy economical problems, and this obsessed the mother. She was thinking "what a horrible world this is, nothing is ever coming to me." All these thoughts the child had absorbed and the child had come to the conclusion that the world he is going to enter is a place where he cannot live in peace. Money has to come and it will be difficult to get them.


- If a child is born unhappy, maybe it was made in frustration and the parents did not love each other, what can you do for this child?

- We wait until the child is twelve and we do some work on him. It can be healed.


- Is it not enough if the mother gives the child her love from the heart?

- It should be done before the child is seven/eight, because that is the time when the blueprint of the child is made. After seven you really cannot do much, then the child becomes an individual and we have to work on the child. So we educate the mother gradually how she should bring up the child. We think that it is a mass of flesh inside the womb, no it has life, and it has consciousness. We are guiding the mother in what and how she should do when the child is coming out into the world. The few moments for the mother and the people around are like an eternity for the child. As the baby is passing through the tunnel, as it is coming out, it is torture. If the mother does some sadhanas the entry to this world can be a bit easier and very often the child comes out with the conclusion that the world is easy.

When the child is born the first response of the world is very important, the mother's touch as soon as the child is born is invaluable. So it is momentous how the world receives the child, if they say: "Oh, another male child." In India it is often "Oh, another female child" or " Oh, how dark it is." If the response is "Oh God, this child is the light of my life", that child will definitely be a happy child and very often successful also. The very first moments when a child enters the world it has an expanded consciousness. If the child felt rejected when it came out it will very often feel rejected in life. She may marry ten men, or twelve men, no matter how much love she gets, it will not be sufficient. She will always feel not wanted, nobody loves me. And that is those children that often commit suicide.



-The extended consciousness that the baby has when it comes to the world, how long does it rest?

- It will rest an hour or so. And those few moment's people who love it must surround it. After that, if it forced to, it can go other way, but the first moments are crucial. And the first six years until the child is getting seven, we shall think about the child as a king. You cannot say no, the parents must be obedient. And to treat the children like kings and queens means that the parents shall not own the child, the parent shall be a friend of the child.


- But as a parent, you have to teach your child that there are dangerous things to watch up for?

- You can teach as a friend. It often happens when a parent tells the child to do something and the child refuses, that a friend says the same thing and the child does it. You do not like to be owned by anyone, do you?

- No.

- It is the same thing with the child, and the child is even more perceptive, even more sensitive, it hates to be possessed, it hates to be owned. The child wants to be helped by its parents, but as a friend. As a friend the parent can say, "Please do not do that, it is not god for you'. The child says, 'okay baba". It is the attitude of the parent, where the parent is coming from. The child is perceptive to your emotion, to your perception, your attitude; your action itself is second.


- What do you say about the three years defiant age? In Sweden we learn that the parents must be strong and show where the borders are etc. This is totally different from Shristi.

- Totally. Until seven the child must not confront much no, if you cannot give it, do not show it. If you cannot afford it, do not take the child there. The child must feel respected, the child must feel welcomed, the child must feel like a king. Sri Sri Bhagavan does not say loved, he says respected until it is seven. That is the time when the future of the child is made. After seven if the parents have a little turbulent period the child will make it, you do not have to be worried. It can be periods during the teen that the child goes off track, but it will make a grand comeback because of the first seven years. And those first seven years is not the time for the child to be exposed to parents fighting. It should not be exposed to any hate; the parents must learn to clear this. And the period from seven to fourteen Sri Sri Bhagavan says that the child is to be treated as a prince. You can say no, this is the time when you can be tuff. After fourteen you treat it like a friend, then it is an adult. Do not talk to your child, talk with your child. When they are fourteen you are just an equal. They have had their experience of life; this is the time in certain aspects that they want to find their own identity away from you. In that period they say no to everything you suggest. It is natural, and if you let it say no and you show it understanding during this period between 14 and 17 when it is 21 it will be a very understanding person.

This is how we go through Shristi and we basically put the mothers benefits first, liberate her from whatever she has accumulated from her childhood. If we do not work with the mother, the child will have all the mother's accumulated feelings. And the same thing happens with the father.


- Do you work with all the family together or do you work with women separately and men separately?

- Both types. Sometimes we have groups exclusively for the mothers, sometimes we have groups for both parents, and it is very rare that the child is there. Sri Sri Bhagavan says that when we can give Shristi to the world, there will be a better world.

- There will be happier children.

- And happy human beings are not troublesome. You can just give to others what you have, if you are happy you give happiness to others. So the best safety for this world is to make happy babies.


- I have heard that children are enlightened up to five, six years, is that true?

- The child is enlightened very often up to two, two and a half years old. It has no self; it has no sense of separation. Suddenly there, biologically it starts, it happens in the body, there is a self. First time it happens for some is around one and a half years, for some three. Usually it is around this period the individual is born, is separated from the others.

- I have heard that once the idea was that mankind should have been enlightened when it become teenager but that has failed, what is the background to that?

- It is the natural state of mind that self is not there when the person is born but then the self emerges. Only when the self emerges there is a different type of learning that is required for survival that can happen. Then the self has to go away when the child is around 18, 19, natural the person has to live in an enlightened state of consciousness. But due to various reasons, it is not happening. There is a discontent state around 18, I do not know if you have noticed? The whole thing looks disgusting, something that is irritating, until this time it is not there and then the child starts questioning: what is the whole purpose of life? Why am I living? Why can't I die?

This is the time when people take to drugs, when people take to drinks or they fall in love and they get married. When you marry, at least in India, you have a ticket to endless problems. The first years you have troubles with relating to each other, then with your in-laws, then with your children and life moves on, at least in India that's how it is. You forget about your inner life. It knocks on the door sometimes but you have so many problems so you push it away. Somewhere if you are blessed enough the discontent will come up again. It is a blessing because if you are not going to come in contact with that discontent how are you ever going to move inward? How are you ever going to become enlightened?

- What's the difference for a child between having two parents and just having one?

- It will definitely be better for the child to have a mother and a father, but if life has made it so that a child just has one parent, the responsibility will be more for that parent. It depends on if the mother is capable to overcome her own suffering, then the trauma will not be there. If the mother suffers from feeling lonely or has feelings of hate towards the other person or has suppressed her suffering then it is going to affect the child. This can also be the father. But let us say that the parents have worked on themselves, have assimilated the painful experiences in life of separation or whatever and they are happy and they marry to someone else. Then it will not affect the child as a trauma.

- Does this mean that all the parents' feelings are affecting the child?

- It will affect the child very much until the child is seven.

- Almost every child is affected then.

- Yes, that is why the world is full of hatred. It is so painful to see people that do not know what to do with themselves, how to deal with the pain they are carrying.

- Do the children take over the parent's pain?

- They are connected so it flows, joy flows, love flows. It is like when someone has an experience at a retreat. One person starts laughing, he goes into ecstasy and it goes into everyone, it just comes with no reason. Because during the retreat you got connected. If joy can travel, pain also can, fear also can. Even if you notice that someone sitting next to you have fear it affects you in your stomach. And whether you intend to or not, violence will keep go into you. I think so many parents are struggling to not express their pain, struggling to not express their anger to the child, there is an outburst. You have to face it, you have to deal with it, you cannot suppress.

Your concern for your child is making you behave well. That is what we deal with in level two retreats. We teach people how to deal with their suffering. Life is constantly serving you suffering, unless you know how to deal with it you become hard, you become dead internally. And from that inner death all diseases arise, all suffering, everything starts from within. All external problems start within also.


Happy individuals create Happy Society




Radhika Dasaji on Sristi, the Art of Parenting




Life After Life

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Shri Bhagavan's New Year(2009) Message



Shri Bhagavan Message....
The new year is meant to Dream and to bring forth a new Creation . Let your feelings grow wings an fly beyond the farthest horizons of your imagination

HAPPY NEW YEAR ... New Website Inaugaration By Shri Bhagwan





As the New Year unfolds, bringing in a new turn of events, we too at Oneness are racing ahead at breakneck speed. This year marks the launch of our all new website www.onenessindia. org on January 1st, 2009.

The website is inaugurated at the Golden City – Phase I, with Sri Bhagavan delivering the New Year message at 8:45 am (IST).


www.onenessindia. org is an initiative by Oneness to bring to you the spirit behind the vision founded by Sri Amma Bhagavan- To set Humanity free.

Oneness with a vastly liberal and secular approach is an attempt to bring humanity together in a spirit of harmony, love and connectedness. This approach could be attributed to a very unique perception that the founders
Sri Amma Bhagavan share, who emphasize the beauty and importance of religious and cultural variety as every human being is made unique. It is therefore their message to the world that Oneness is not necessarily about making everyone embrace the same system of belief, doctrine or tradition but more a process of discovering the truth that is inherent in every tradition.

Oneness as a concept is beautiful, as an experience is staggering.

www.onenessindia. org is a place where the community can gather and move towards greater connection and Oneness. The focus of this website would be to offer upcoming events, news, information, photos, videos, testimonials and lots more than literature you would want to read and see, leading to deepen and accelerate your personal growth. This website also features upcoming courses and calendar of the different programs that would happen in Oneness from time to time. This would also be a place where we could come together to experience and share the Oneness Deeksha, to learn, to grow and open our hearts; a place to laugh and even cry; a place to deepen our connection and journey into Oneness.

It will be a home for all of Oneness, its community,
supporters and recipients.

Log on to www.onenessindia. org begin your New Year with a journey into Oneness.
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009

MAY AMMABHAGWAN BLESSINGS AND PRESCENCE GUIDE YOU ALWAYS